I'm going to give you the take nobody else will: there's no universally right answer here, but there are a lot of wrong ones. The model decision isn't just technical, it's a business decision that shapes your cost structure at scale, your ability to ship fast, and your exposure to a single vendor's pricing changes and outages.
I've built products on GPT-4o, Claude 3.5/3.7, Llama, Mistral, and hybrid combinations of all of the above. Here's what I've actually learned, not what the benchmark pages say.
